Tech that!
Why is there such a deep drive within us for perfect relating?
http://www.evolutionarycollective.com/content/events/2012/highest-possibility-relationships
Join us, Wednesday, February 29th, 10am PST.
Why is there such a deep drive within us for perfect relating?
What part of us knows there is no end to how beauty, love and
goodness can manifest, and how do we empower that part to expand, and to
guide us?
What can we aspire to as the highest possibilities for human beings now?
Join us live with Martin Ucik, author of INTEGRAL RELATIONSHIPS: A MANUAL FOR MEN
as he and Evolutionary Collective Conversations host Patricia Albere
discuss the highest possibilities available for relationships as we
develop as human beings.
Don’t miss this highly nuanced while practical discussion about love
and relationships! Call us and engage, Live. The conversation is
infinitely more fun with you in it.
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Guidelines for being in groups
Throughout the day we are forced to participate in groups (meetings, church, school, families, work)
but not everyone knows how to function within a group.
Here are some helpful guidelines to spot if your “group” is supporting healthy mutuality.
http://www.wakingdown.org/essay.asp?PageID=197
Just in time for Valentine’s day
For the infra red through orange levels of first tier evolvement….this might be funny.
http://www.seductionredefined.com/MensBrainsWomensBrains.html
and INtegral Relationships Newsletter:
http://www.integralrelationship.com/Newsletters.asp#morals
I’m having a 4 quadrant affair – are you?
”Once you start viewing reality as a four-quadrant affair….
you’ll wonder how you ever conceived of life in any other way”
from http://www.andrewcohen.com/?p=8023
you’ll wonder how you ever conceived of life in any other way”
from http://www.andrewcohen.com/
The tool
Ok. So it took me a while to find what I was looking for.
First I meditated (to still the mind)
Then I created the Primary (I have the tool to help people)
Then I went about my day, integrating reading (to feed the mind and soul)
After several weeks I have the answer.
Integral Life Practice.
This is the tool that will help each person evolve.
When someone triggers us it’s a lesson from your higher self to evolve.
You diplomatically inform the trigger.
The trigger can integrate WITH you OR take their triggers to the next person waiting to be woken up.
Here are the 12 core values of integrally informed grown ups.
12 Core Values of Integral Relationship Evolutionaries:
- We choose to love, instead of something that happens to us or that we attract.
- We see the depth of our heart and soul connection as well as the level of humility and devotion to our relationship as an indicator of our psychological health and spiritual realization.
- We transcend our primary fantasy and base our relationship in Being values, versus material, sexual, or emotional neediness.
- We use our relationship for ongoing mutual learning, healing, growth and awakening towards the capacity to love unconditionally.
- We hold an evolutionary perspective and have reached or strive towards an integral, transpersonal or higher level of consciousness.
- We continually develop, balance and harmonize our healthy feminine and masculine polarities and meet each other as opposites and equals to create synergy at the level of all the seven chakras.
- We share a purpose for our relationship which is larger than either individual and is offered in service for the greatest good of the largest number of people.
- We have an Integral Life Practice (ILP) with modules for the health of our body, mind, spirit/soul, and shadow, as well as ethics, sexuality, work, emotions, and relationships.
- We make an explicit agreement to tell/listen-to each other’s truths without the need for validation or acceptance from our partner, and to own our emotional reactions to our partner’s reality.
- We set and respect each other’s healthy boundaries.
- We share material resources and pursue an environmentally and socially responsible lifestyle.
- We engage in sacred/tantric sexuality and practice monogamy out of choice instead of fear.
(c) Martin Ucik. Permission to use with reference to the author and this website.
http://www.integralrelationship.com/
Integral Life Practice
The leading edge integral evolutionaries have created a clearer path for those interested in evolving more efficiently across all domains of human potential.
Vertical cross training.
Pick a practice from each level and nurture all of your being.
example: healthy physical body practices, healthy emotional body practices, healthy mind practices, healthy spirit practices, healthy soul practices.
12 Core Values
12 Core Values of Integral Relationship Evolutionaries:
- We choose to love, instead of something that happens to us or that we attract.
- We see the depth of our heart and soul connection as well as the level of humility and devotion to our relationship as an indicator of our psychological health and spiritual realization.
- We transcend our primary fantasy and base our relationship in Being values, versus material, sexual, or emotional neediness.
- We use our relationship for ongoing mutual learning, healing, growth and awakening towards the capacity to love unconditionally.
- We hold an evolutionary perspective and have reached or strive towards an integral, transpersonal or higher level of consciousness.
- We continually develop, balance and harmonize our healthy feminine and masculine polarities and meet each other as opposites and equals to create synergy at the level of all the seven chakras.
- We share a purpose for our relationship which is larger than either individual and is offered in service for the greatest good of the largest number of people.
- We have an Integral Life Practice (ILP) with modules for the health of our body, mind, spirit/soul, and shadow, as well as ethics, sexuality, work, emotions and relationships.
- We make an explicit agreement to tell/listen-to each other’s truths without the need for validation or acceptance from our partner, and to own our emotional reactions to our partner’s reality.
- We set and respect each other’s healthy boundaries.
- We share material resources and pursue an environmentally and socially responsible lifestyle.
- We engage in sacred/tantric sexuality and practice monogamy out of choice instead of fear.
(c) Martin Ucik. Permission to use with reference to the author and this website.
http://www.integralrelationship.com/