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spiritual integration

The tool

Ok. So it took me a while to find what I was looking for.
First I meditated (to still the mind)
Then I created the Primary (I have the tool to help people)
Then I went about my day, integrating reading (to feed the mind and soul)
After several weeks I have the answer.
Integral Life Practice.
This is the tool that will help each person evolve.
When someone triggers us it’s a lesson from your higher self to evolve.
You diplomatically inform the trigger.
The trigger can integrate WITH you OR take their triggers to the next person waiting to be woken up.
Here are the 12 core values of integrally informed grown ups.

12 Core Values of Integral Relationship Evolutionaries:

  1. We choose to love, instead of something that happens to us or that we attract.
  2. We see the depth of our heart and soul connection as well as the level of humility and devotion to our relationship as an indicator of our psychological health and spiritual realization.
  3. We transcend our primary fantasy and base our relationship in Being values, versus material, sexual, or emotional neediness.
  4. We use our relationship for ongoing mutual learning, healing, growth and awakening towards the capacity to love unconditionally.
  5. We hold an evolutionary perspective and have reached or strive towards an integral, transpersonal or higher level of consciousness.
  6. We continually develop, balance and harmonize our healthy feminine and masculine polarities and meet each other as opposites and equals to create synergy at the level of all the seven chakras.
  7. We share a purpose for our relationship which is larger than either individual and is offered in service for the greatest good of the largest number of people.
  8. We have an Integral Life Practice (ILP) with modules for the health of our body, mind, spirit/soul, and shadow, as well as ethics, sexuality, work, emotions, and relationships.
  9. We make an explicit agreement to tell/listen-to each other’s truths without the need for validation or acceptance from our partner, and to own our emotional reactions to our partner’s reality.
  10. We set and respect each other’s healthy boundaries.
  11. We share material resources and pursue an environmentally and socially responsible lifestyle.
  12. We engage in sacred/tantric sexuality and practice monogamy out of choice instead of fear.

(c) Martin Ucik. Permission to use with reference to the author and this website.
http://www.integralrelationship.com/

Could this be YOU?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Another Integral Male in St Pete!

OK so it’s looking up for the girls in St Pete today.
Will YOU be next?
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sexy men read martin ucik’s book – in public

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will YOU get caught today reading THIS book? in public?!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Practicing the tenets of Evolutionary Enlightenment

1. Stillness
2, Clarity of Intention
3. Power of Volition
4. Face Everything, Avoid Nothing
5. Process Perspective
6. Cosmic Conscience

According to Ken Wilber’s research only the leading edge (top 5%) of the population is integrally informed.
Some people may think they are leading the edge, but doing so from a lower level of consciousness.
He seems to think it’s par for the course.
The 70% of ethnocentric struggles are perpetuated/fed/led by current major world religions.
There is a niche market for transition services and products that help move people towards being more integrally informed.
Selling quality integrally informed educational material.


(Like practitioners themselves moving towards their own integration and then relating their experiences to their clients)
You can’t be integral without interior and exterior scaffolding.
(Relationship, community and to some extent interfacing with an integral institution)

example: To some extent the Lyricus Teaching Order is setting up a scaffolding in consciousness through it’s products and services.
(music, art, educational materials)

A fresh word from one of my favorite people

Do we really need a transrational religion at all?
Maybe the Integral leaders are busy slapping eachother on the back like all the academics of the past.
If we all just helped the next guy develop Andrew Cohens 6 Tenets couldn’t we shift to the minimum needed 51% for the cultural emergence of a cosmic conscience in say, a year?
How many 6th graders need to read “Evolutionary Enlightenment” for example to “get it”?

http://integralleadershipreview.com/3951-another-fresh-perspective-ken-wilber-and-raquel-torrent-in-denver

 

 

 

Fr Thomas Keating is a living Bodhissatva

May you hear the call

I was going to say saint, but i don’t think he wants to be limited only to the realm of christian wisdom tradition.
And I think to be declared a saint you have to be dead, working miracles from the Bardo.
I am only half way through his book “Divine Therapy” and I can already see and feel his book is changing lives.
His invitation to centering prayer is so gently administered through Q & A discourse that reading alone will take you through the 12 steps intellectually – if you have never considered yourself to be an imposter.
I don’t want to spoil the fun for the reader by giving it all away here.

So far I have attended 2 centering prayer groups in different locations.
One at St. Anthony’s Hospital in St Petersburg, and the other St. Matthews Church in Seminole, Fl.
All while I was waiting for Barnes & Nobles to get my copy of Divine Therapy.
At one of the meetings I watched an interview with Fr. Keating.
I was moved by his vulnerability on camera.
This is clearly a man who has done his homework.
If we could pick a dad, this man would make an awesome one.
His presence is so non threatening, unlike many men who still walk this earth.
He explains the threatening presence of males to be the unhealed emotional wounds of their childhood.
The puffed up ego, the false self, the narcissist, all of the archetypes in fact.
He challenges us further to look within for the source of the false self.
This he says can ONLY be done through a contemplative practice with God (or source) at the center.
He challenges people who call themselves christians, to take up the practice and integrate their concept of christ.
Most of our concepts (if not all of them) are false. The presence of christ within isn’t a vein popping preacher or an angry parent.
Your parents were/are angry because they themselves were/are falsely presenting their true nature.
Illness and suffering on the planet today IS mainly emotional until we get the level of genetics, then it is just that.
I felt from his interview, he is in line with all the mathematical approaches to end times.
There IS a spiritual urgency to gather the rational minds and inspire them to integrate at a higher level of consciousness.
Beyond the who is right and who is deluded.
We know now that human growth and development goes through stages. Each stage must be earned.
To move from an ethnocentric position, there needs to be an inner transformation that cannot take place without a contemplative integral practice – like a 12 step approach. We are addicted to our childish shadow self.
The one who hides behind snidey remarks, sarcasm, parody and skits.
Even though most humans on the planet are currently trapped at lower functioning levels, those who have escaped to higher realms, (and there are thousands who have) can start using their creative talents to get the word out in any media possible. Hollywood is an effective vehicle, the largest religions on the planet are another AND WordPress who boasts to have the fastest growing magnet for putting messages “out there” in google land.
And yet, the shocking statistic of people using the internet to spread negative viruses of narcissistic “ok”ness should awaken the living dead.
It really IS darkest before the dawn this month.
Venus, (our brightest planet) is hidden from view this month in northern hemisphere, because she’s obscured by the sunset.
In the southern hemisphere, Venus twinkles in the blink of an eye at dusk.
May all those participating in Rosh Hashanah this year, hear their trumpet of goodness, truth and beauty.
Back in the day, planets and stars were assumed to be celestial bodies that sent coded messages to mankind.
New Moon today September 27, 11:09am. A liminal opportunity.

Remember Good Games

Magic Number 12321 In Thai Massage

1st person (me)
2nd person (thou)
3rd person (it)
2nd person (thou)
1st person (me)
To students of Integral Practice, this makes complete sense.
Connecting to the person (subject) in a 3 step process and returning to source.
Continually in a 90 minute session can have powerful transformative potential.
A minimum effective contact can also have transformative potential.
Culturally, a handshake when done with magic number can transform a moment.
Even more subtely, a magic number smile.
Even more subtely, a magic number wish, prayer, intention, primary can transform a reality.

Journey out and in 12321

GIA Audios – learn to abide as the perfection at the heart of the cosmos

Here is a 30 minute meditation.
“learn to abide as the perfection at the heart of the cosmos”
Recommended twice per day.
http://www.box.net/shared/static/q2xblk1cuq.mp3

GIA Audios.